In this month’s spotlight, I had the pleasure of sitting down with Helyn Ashford, the charismatic Division J Director, to discuss her Toastmasters journey, leadership style, and her vision for the division. Here’s what she shared:
Allen Paul: Helyn, can you share a bit about your background and what initially led you to join Toastmasters?
Helyn Ashford: Absolutely, Allen. I have always been a nervous, anxious person with low self-confidence. A few friends in Texas advised me of a club that helped with confidence through public speaking. The prospect of this scared the hell out of me however I could see how it may help me. After a couple of failed attempts to join a meeting, due to my nerves, I finally joined online during covid. I never thought TM would have given me so many new skills and led me down a leadership path that I never envisaged when I joined.
Allen Paul: That’s inspiring! Speaking of memorable experiences, do you have any particularly humorous moments from your Toastmasters journey that you could share?
Helyn Ashford: Oh, definitely!I’ll never forget attending my first area contest. One speaker who was taking part in the humorous contest gave a speech on a clown that couldn’t stop breaking wind! I found it hilarious and really showed me that speeches didn’t have to be serious and could be on anything you want it to be.
Allen Paul: How would you describe your leadership style, and if you could compare it to a movie genre, what would it be?
Helyn Ashford: Well my ADs may say it’s like a horror film! I would like to say a rom com as we all get on with each other like family. We aren’t just Toastmasters but friends after all. I love my division and really try to encourage and empower every member. I also love to laugh and think it’s important we enjoy ourselves cause what is the point in doing it if we don’t!
Allen Paul: What’s the most unusual or creative idea a team member has brought to the table under your leadership?
Helyn Ashford: I always love an alternative meeting. Lately I have had the opportunity to participate in a wedding workshop. The creativity of the sessions with speeches, poems and raps was amazing to see and experience. Everybody dressed the part and really encouraged each other. I’d recommend it to anyone.
Allen Paul: Before we dive deeper into your division’s plans, what’s one quirky thing you always do before a Toastmasters meeting?
Helyn Ashford: I always make sure I take a bathroom break before any meeting, especially DEC as you never know when you will be able to go next.
Allen Paul: Away from Toastmasters, what are some of your hobbies or activities?
Helyn Ashford: When I’m not doing TM stuff, I really like walking and spend most of my time doing coastal walks. I enjoy the gym…sometimes. I love spending time with family and friends, enjoying a good cocktail and a lovely meal. I’m a foodie at heart! I do like a gig or two as well, spending lots of time, and expense, on country and rock music tickets
Allen Paul: If you were stuck on a desert island, which three Toastmasters resources would you want with you?
Helyn Ashford: Firstly a copy of Robert’s Rules; that will help me fall asleep at night. I’d also like a copy of the book ‘Surrounded by Idiots’ so I can learn more about human interaction and personalities just in case I ever make it home. Then finally a copy of a classic like Moby Dick to read to my new best friend, Wilson!
Allen Paul: Looking ahead, what are some exciting plans or events on the horizon for Division J?
Helyn Ashford: I have big plans for Div J. This year my biggest aim is to get those clubs who are struggling up to at least a distinguished standard. I’d love for Red Dragon TM to charter this year too. I also want to put wheels in motion for a second area in South Wales, although that goal may take longer than a year! We are also planning a division contest weekend!!! Where members can celebrate and network all weekend long
Allen Paul: Lastly, what advice would you give to anyone considering taking on a role as a division director?
Helyn Ashford: My advice for anyone thinking of doing the divisional role in the future would be just do it! It is such a learning opportunity and it really tests your leadership skills in a completely different way than Area Director. Make sure you have a selection of ADs you can rely on and who will grab their role with both hands. Communication with them is key. Talk all the time. Run ideas together and don’t dictate them. Remember to check in with Ads too as their role can be so full on. Don’t be afraid to question DLT too; you may come up with something that they never thought of!
Here’s Helyn Ashford, our esteemed Division J Director, demonstrating her unique approach to ‘conflict resolution’ with Area Director Alex. In Toastmasters, even our most ‘intense’ leadership training sessions are all in good fun!
Last Updated on 28th August 2024 by Allen Paul