Discovering Toastmasters beyond your own club

I’ve been a member of Toastmasters for eleven years and over that period I’ve become a big advocate of visiting other clubs. When asked why, I usually say that, all Toastmasters clubs follow the same basic meeting recipe yet each has its own unique and distinctive ‘flavour’.

I love meeting new Toastmasters, hearing their stories and learning about – well everything.

Visiting Toastmasters Clubs around the globe

It has always been possible for Toastmasters to visit other clubs abroad, but it’s suddenly become a whole lot easier (and cheaper). The rapid switch to online clubs has opened up the whole of the global Toastmasters community in a way that we could never have envisaged just a few weeks ago. I know because I’ve been club surfing while in home isolation.

Here’s where I’ve been

Since 23 March, I’ve been to 22 clubs on all 5 continents plus 4 Division Conferences and a D79 (Saudi Arabia) Leadership presentation.

The first was Paris Toastmasters, where I know fellow Toastmaster Carol Bausor. Vive la France!

Dnipro Toastmasters in Ukraine held a themed meeting “Cats & Dogs” introducing members’ pets on a slide show and carrying the theme through speeches and Table Topics. I was delighted when my impromptu story about our rescue dog won Best Table Topics award. I liked this quote:

“Don’t you feel like we are all trapped on the huge cruise ship called Earth
and there is nowhere to escape?”

The same day, I discovered Storytellers Sunday, an initiative by the Eastern Europe District Director which attracted 110 visitors in as many cities. We heard six stories on “The Meaning of Life” then an Open Mic session gave us three more tales. I have been twice more on “Lies, Lies, Lies” and “Oops, I did it Again”. You can find the group on Facebook.

Dun Laoghaire outside Dublin was charming with lilting Irish accents. I loved the fact that they start and end their meetings with an aphorism:

“What lies in the well of your heart comes up in the bucket of your speech.”

I also came across a new role, that of Poetmaster, who shared a poem about lock-down.

In one day, I visited three clubs. At lunchtime, I sat in on TK Maxx’s corporate club in London; the very polite and respectful Emerald Toastmasters in Nigeria; before finishing off the day at London Victorians to hear three mini-debates on Monarchy, legalizing drugs, and pros and cons of Artificial Intelligence. Wow, what a day!

As I speak fluent Dutch, I chose to visit Toastmasters Antwerpen in Belgium, a club I had visited many times in person when I lived there. Their theme was one of my favourites: “Personal Development books”.

Another day of three meetings: the energy-filled Bangkok Toastmasters in Thailand where I was Table Topics Evaluator and learned that they do not need to hoard toilet rolls as at home, they use bidet sprayer; Pinnacle Advanced Toastmasters in Sri Lanka where 50% of members are DTMs and finally, Experience French in London where I was Table Topics Master.

I met President “Tom in the Hat” at Eloquent Entrepreneurs in Denver, Colorado, a club for members with the entrepreneurial mindset. Three Toastmasters also visited from Taiwan. The next day, I attended one of my old Belgian clubs, Fonske Leuven, where I took on the General Evaluator role. I was a charter member of the club in 2009 and it was wonderful to be reunited with some of the other founding members including one, whose first-ever speech I heard and now he’s a DTM!

On Friday, I visited Singapore Online Speakers, where I had the privilege of hearing the 2001 World Champion of Public Speaking, Darren Le Croix, deliver a presentation on creating “Unforgettable Presentations.” You can hear this at the D91 Conference. The next day, I visited Gemstones in Nigeria along with visitors from several countries.

In the last ten days, I have visited clubs in Brussels (Anglo/Spanish), Marbella (Spain), Antwerp (again), Bangkok (different club), Baghdad (young professionals), Pinnacle Advanced in Johannesburg as Grammarian and this morning, Foveaux in New Zealand. Tonight, I’m going back to my first club, Toastmasters Hasselt in Belgium to give a speech and be Table Topics Master.

A great way to make more of your membership

As well as these international clubs, I attended Division H Conference where I picked up valuable online presenting tips from the Target Speaker in the Evaluation Contest, who gave a talk entitled “How to be a Zoom Director.” Division K had not one but three past World Champions as Keynote speakers. I gave my ACG Leadership presentation in the Division A Conference and was honoured to be invited to be the Target Speaker for Division J. I would not normally have travelled to these events and paid the entrance fee but now could benefit all for free!

In four weeks, I have visited all these clubs and events, met hundreds of Toastmasters, made new friends and made dozens of pages of notes, all for the price of my Toastmasters membership. International visiting online is a great way to make the most of your membership. Lock-down will not last for much longer so I recommend making the most of the opportunity.

Want to have a go?

By now, you should have some appreciation of the enormous range of Toastmasters experiences.

So how do you get started?

There are many different ways to find online Toastmasters clubs. Here’s how I do it:

  1. By Location
    Go to www.Toastmasters.org. Select “Find a Club” and type in a location. Contact the club and ask for details of their online meetings.
  2. Via easySpeak
    If you want to find clubs in the UK, log into easySpeak, click on Organization (left-hand column) then select D91, then Meetings. Now select Calendar (top left) and “All online meetings” in the drop-down menu (bottom left). You will see clubs listed on every date. Choose one, click on the meeting manager and send an email.
  3. Via Facebook
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/Toastmastersclubswithonlineattendance/ https://www.facebook.com/groups/ToastmastersInternationalMembers/
  4. Some unofficial lists that members are compiling:
    https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1TYgVo7nCUZQMgDkzbrQTTS3kWqgoCC-MAtH_yGr2IaE/edit#gid=0
    https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1mH_Ow0vQ0yEMSklNYLNEt0LPKRE6IzwSKjnzcUFdjx0/edit?fbclid=IwAR0-sjXEB5wdo_DX78GOrmcXv9-YkCLbN_-NbqlwLPyNuN1Rl1-C-NnDLFc#gid=0

Remember to check the time zone of the meeting against UK BST time. You can do this here: https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html

No need to pack your suitcase. Enjoy your travelling.

Antonia Harrison
President, Shilling Speakers
Immediate Past Area A1 Director

What I learnt from my last 6 month lock-down

Hi everyone, I’m Mel Cunningham. I’m VPM for both Oxford Orators and Didcot Speakers clubs, and I’m in the process of completing level 5 of the Dynamic Leadership pathway. I’m a headshot, event and scientific conference photographer and like all of us, my working and personal life has recently been jackknifed into lockdown.

This weekend, I was delighted to deliver a keynote speech at District Joy’s International Speech contest via zoom. It was the story about how I survived a medically induced six month lock down several years ago.

I was forced to let go of the hectic life I had, and make some seriously drastic changes to my attitude, outlook and priorities. I had to battle with months and months of being unwell, fear I would never recover and many unhelpful suggestions.

I’d like to share what I learnt then, to help you persevere through our current lockdown to prevent the spread of COV-19. I have also written the full story for you to fully understand my journey or you can watch the video of the speech.

Lesson number 1: Accept that this is the now. Now is all there is. There is no fighting or changing it. It’s a realisation that will come to you in an instant or gradually.

Reading or rereading Eckhardt Tolle ‘The Power of Now’ is my best suggestion.

Lesson number 2. Establish whether you are a moving or a still meditation person. And practice that every day. Doesn’t have to be crack of dawn nonsense, just when you need it. Now, I am a crack of dawn person, but that’s my superpower.

Try a few tai chi or qigong videos and discover if you need gentle movement to still your mind and breath into a meditative state.

Lesson number 3: Celebrate and appreciate the simple in your surroundings. Find something joyful, peaceful or uplifting every day to celebrate.

I’ve started a private instagram account to select one image of peace that I share with my lock down buddy, Mackenzie, my dog. I would encourage you to do something similar, like 100 days of happiness or the daily moments of calm instagram projects.

Lesson number 4: A bucket list. Though I liken it to something that sounds very similar.

When this is over, I’m spending as much time as possible walking and protecting the elephants. That was how I celebrated the end of my last lock down and I intend, if possible, to do the same, this time. Figure out what is truly important for you to do, change or prioritise.

Lesson number 5. Always ask your best friends and family for help. Or strangers. Inbetween doesn’t seem to work when you are struggling.

My life during my first lockdown wouldn’t have been anything without my two best friends who lived with or next door to me, and my two best friends in foreign countries, staying in touch virtually. You’ll be amazed at the support, advice and love you receive, if you ask.

Lesson number 6. When it ends, there is SO MUCH JOY, it’s almost hard to contain. But there is also one final trap we all need to prepare for upon release. There will be alot of anger, resentment and frustration at having to rebuild your/our lives again.

This is my personal lesson, because in the end, I needed alot of counselling, therapy and support to recreate my life again.  We will all going need to invest in this to recover and rebuild.

Lesson 7. Nurture and maintain virtual relationships, to be as strong as in person ones. They aren’t the same, but they are currently the best we have. It’s an opportunity to embrace technology to support and supplement our relationships.

Total plug here: With my professional photographer’s eye and some surprising hacks for tricking the crappy computer camera, there’s so many ways to ensure that your virtual connection continues to be strong.

It’s all in the quality of the image you share, because we rely on someone’s visual cues to connect emotionally. If you can’t be seen clearly or see someone else clearly, it might cost you some of that connection, the relationship or your business or job.

If you are struggling and would like a ‘light me up in the zoom’ session, please do get in touch. It’s already proving to be incredibly effective for doctors working online, academics sharing their research and simply keeping families connected.

Lesson number 8. Go back to Lesson 1. Repeat, especially when we are not in lockdown.

My experience was personal, but not unique. There are many people who have been through a similar experience for various reasons, and many who are still suffering, with no possibility of their situation changing. I was fortunate to have escaped, and have had a chance to reflect and now another chance to put what I learnt back into practice. I believe this current global situation has many personal and universal lessons for us all, if we are prepared to embrace them. I hope one or all of my personal lessons will help you now.

Mel Cunningham – mel@vivaciousmelphotography.com www.vivaciousmelphotography.com

District Council Meeting 2 May 2020

Our next District Council Meeting will take place online on Saturday 2 May from 10:00 to 13:00. All Club Presidents, Vice-Presidents Education and members of the District Executive Committee are invited to attend and have their say on the following:

  • Elect the Division Directors, Club Growth Director, Program Quality Director and District Director for the 2020/21 Toastmasters Year. More information about the candidates can be found here.
  • Vote on the alignment of clubs to Areas and Divisions. The alignment committee report and proposals for the 2020/21 Toastmasters Year can be found here and the supporting spreadsheet here.
  • Hear updates from the District Leadership Team on District performance, District finances and how we are delivering on our District Mission.

Your attendance can make a major difference in the way the District is run. For example, following a motion put forward at the September 2019 District Council Meeting. The District Leadership Team opted to open a bank account in the United Kingdom to lessen its dependence on solutions provided by Toastmasters World Headquarters which in turn enabled the District to serve its members better!

Feel free to consult the Council Pack with all supporting documents here.

Preparing for the small screen

By Helena Boden-Brewer

Fellow Toastmasters this is our new reality. As we adjust to this massive change to our world, for the majority that is staying at home, pause to consider those that are working to support us, from the wider community. For some, this may be family and friends that work in the health service, the supermarkets and the delivery drivers. Follow the advice as we receive it. The changes are daily, and we all have to readjust again.

For our Toastmasters community, the switch to holding online club meetings, hosting events and contests, the response has been phenomenal. In such a short space of time, Zoom meetings are being held and the sense of our community is shining through. The club buddies of phoning members of within your club and checking in with members. It’s a small thing, that really matters. For those that are self-isolating or live alone, being able to join in, either online or via the dial-in details, hearing familiar voices, sharing stories, are providing support in these challenging times.

A new role of Zoom Master has sprung up. I’d like to thank all those members that have joined the Zoom Masters What’s App group and are sharing information and creating guidance, that we can all benefit from.

With these extraordinary times, comes changes to our personal lives, for some, this is about job security and certainty. The shift to moving job interviews online is something new to many. From the posts, I put on Facebook and What’s App last week, there are volunteers stepping forward, offering to help those seeking support for online interviews. Contact me if you require support in this area.

Last year for Toastmasters I wrote a series of articles about preparing for the small screen. There are similar tips if you are preparing to conduct a webinar, host a virtual meeting or be interviewed online.

Here are ten tips for you to consider.

1 – Are you sitting comfortably?

If you are delivering a webinar you will be sitting in the same chair for at least an hour. Ensuring you are comfortable, with good back support will help. Then there’s the position of your laptop or camera in relation to where you are sitting, which parts of you can be seen. Movement is tricky, if you lean forward towards your camera, the audience will receive an unexpected close-up.  Think about your habits, do you rock in your chair, place your hand under your chin, rub your ear or flick your hair? All small things, but easy to become distracting for your audience watching you.

2 – Who are you?

If someone has booked to attend your webinar, they may have done so for several reasons, such as you’re an industry expert, your webinar has been recommended, or they liked the subject matter of your webinar. Providing a brief induction about you and the purpose of the webinar helps settle the attendees. If you have over 20 attendings, it may not be possible to allow time for them to introduce each other. However, if it a business meeting, a small conference or an interview, it is definitely worth knowing who else is there. Allow time for introductions as simple as a name, position and company. This will assist you in knowing if all key stakeholders have joined, and if not, have they sent a representative instead.

3 – Can you hear me?

This is the biggest issue when delivering online training sessions. You need to check in with your online audience that they can actually hear you. The blips and crackles on the sound mean that you are battling with software and putting it this right, rather than delivering your webinar. Joining virtual meetings there is sometimes odd background noises which the attendees are unaware of from their location which is very loud. If you can control muting attendees, do. If not, then encourage them to mute themselves whilst listening. There may be times that despite all the checks that the signal just isn’t good enough. Be prepared to redeliver key points when you recap.

4 – What does that mean?

There are many turns of phrase that are quirky and very British. One recently which had a TV audience thinking about its meaning, ‘put jam on your shoes and invite your trousers down for tea.’ Whilst this may be an obscure expression to some, others will know exactly what is meant by it. When you add turns of phrases or language which are not readily in everyday use, consider how your attendees will interpret them. A webinar on an industry subject with a global reach delivered in English, all the whizz-bang technical jargon will be fully understood. It will be something else, that will trip you up. Consider the questions and time it will take for you to explain why you would put jam on your shoes and invite your trousers down for tea.

5 – It’s behind you!

Whilst you are busy focussing on the camera, have you checked what’s behind you? Whenever possible a clean background is the simplest. If you work in an office that has glass screens, walls and doors, it can be distracting for your audience to have people walking behind you when you are delivering your presentation or pitch. If it’s a virtual interview, definitely clear up the clutter and check what photos and artwork is on the wall. You need to ensure ample lighting for your face, particularly if your background is dark. Does any of the lighting cast shadows on the wall behind you? If it does, change this.

6 – Testing, testing, one, two, three!

It is worth conducting a run-through of any presentation you give. Treat online the same way and practice with a test session. If you are handling technical aspects, it’ll give you one less concern when you are delivering. For webinars, definitely consider recording and watching the test session. You can use this to make any necessary changes. Also, if you have technical problems on the day, you can always use this version to send out the attendees of your webinar later. If you are working with a software package, check out if they have online tutorials that you can watch, the tips may prove very handy, should the technical gremlins decide to come out to play.

7 – Lookin’ good!

Just like meeting people face to face, you have to look the part, your appearance matters. Being well-groomed will help you and your confidence, particularly in an interview situation. It’s not just the clothes, your hair, beard etc…. neat, tidy and professional. In the world of the big and bigger screens, makeup is the norm for a reason, for presenters and actors. Consider how to take the shine from your forehead, taking out redness from the face or conceal dark circles under the eyes. The camera picks up all those blemishes and to you, they will seem to be magnified and you will focus in on them. Be confident and use makeup if you need to.

8 – Any questions?

Be prepared to answer questions. Something to ponder is using systems which provide you with options, for example, attendees message rather than interact vocally. How will you manage this? You may want to consider having the support to deal with the online questions as they arise. They are likely to follow themes based on what you have said. You can have some standard responses ready which you can add into your webinar as you go along. If you are managing the live stream and the questions by yourself, pause after key points check in with the audience that they are following you. This is a good time to ask for questions, which you can then address before you move on. As you presenter, you control this and when you are ready, confidentially state that you will take any further questions about the queries after the webinar.

9 – Reading between the lines.

Try to avoid reading from notes. You will look down and your audience will have a great shot of the top of your head. If the notes are on screen, the movement of your eyes will look odd. All the warmth you will have generated will be lost as you are more likely to come across as stern and robotic. Know your presentation inside out, so that you appear natural. Having prompt cards with keywords on that you can glance at help with when delivering presentations. How about using post-it notes on the side of your screen? You can see them, but the audience can’t.

10 – And action! 

Start on the scheduled time. Greet your audience, colleagues or potential employer with a smile. All the skills that you have developed presenting in person apply here too. You have to engage your audience to ensure they receive your message. A mic or headset may be required, if you are waving your hands about, you may knock this. Endeavour to keep your hands out of shot, if need be, sit on them. Be aware of your nonverbal communications, your eye contact, body language and facial gestures, all come into play. Allow the best of your personality shine through.

Remember to keep a steady pace of speaking, take pauses at transition points and breath. Endeavour to engage with your audience by checking in with them and addressing their questions. Keep to the time stated.

See you on the small screen soon.

Dear members,

By Arnaud Sartre

On my monthly message, I would normally share the many achievements of our members and how they relate to our goals, but today is different.

Many of you are directly impacted by the current coronavirus outbreak, I understand the challenge. Many of you are helping the country fight the ongoing health crisis, I thank you. Many of you face life-changing personal and professional circumstances, I stand by you.

Our Toastmasters Clubs have always provided a safe environment to develop communication and leadership skills. They continue today. For the past couple of weeks, I have witnessed tremendous resilience across our District and I want to thank you.

I thank you for moving our Club meetings online, I thank you for designing online speaking contests at close to no notice and provide a fantastic experience for all our members, I thank you for stepping up and leading your communities in a time of crisis.

Over the comings weeks, I urge you to look after yourselves and your loved ones. Reach out to your members and friends and invite them to your next Club meeting, for some this will be the only contact they may have that day. We can and we will make a difference in our communities.

Despite these challenges, we continue to run our scheduled Division contests (now in an online format), and I encourage you to attend the next events – check our District calendar for more details. Looking ahead to early May, we will also hold a 2-day online District conference, get your ticket on our conference website!

I look forward to e-meeting many more of you over the coming weeks and months,

Stay safe,